We’ve Come From Somewhere

Not too long ago, I wrote up a book review on John Eldredge’s The Way of the Wild Heart. I do appreciate what Eldredge has had to say in all of his works. As I came to the end of The Way of the Wild Heart, this being my third time through the book, I read these very interesting words in the final section on the life of the sage:

‘I recall a phrase I heard years ago, speaking of the men who led the church early in the twentieth century: “Yesterday’s Men.” At the time I liked the phrase. A young Warrior itching for his moment, something in me said, That’s right – these guys need to move over. It’s our turn. In retrospect, I repent of my arrogance. For now, twenty years downriver, I hate that phrase. We need more men around who have lived through yesterday, seen it, and even if they haven’t conquered it, they have learned from it.’

These words struck me as mightily important for today. For Christians who live in the modern, 21st century, we can many times get this idea that things started with us. ‘Who cares about what was said and done before. We are the ones. We have the ideas. We have arrived. It’s all about us.’

Or, to take it even further, today I find that many hold to the motto, Who cares about what was said and done before. We are the ones. We have the ideas and our ideas are that we reject everything that came before us. We have arrived. It’s all about us.’

This kind of mindset is extremely dangerous. In the end, as Eldredge points out, such views are absolutely arrogant! Do we really have the audacity to think that it all started with us? Are we just going to chuck out the great ‘cloud of witnesses’ (Hebrews 12:1)?

Listen, I understand that the church has taken up some seriously unhealthy practices at certain periods in history. We all know the proverbial joke about the Dark Ages and why it was labeled as such. And I understand that, at times, unhealthy and unbiblical tradition has developed in both the past and present. By no means am I suggesting that we put tradition equal to the Scripture. The Pharisees and scribes did that at times and look where it got them (see Matthew 15:1-9).

But I also believe the church is to humbly approach our Christ-centred faith remembering that it isn’t all about us. We actually came from someplace. We actually have quite a few billion in that cloud of witnesses that have gone before us. The gospel did not become a reality in the late 20th or early 21st centuries. It’s been around for quite some time. I think about 2,000 years total.

But too many people have begun sipping from the chalice that says, ‘Forget them. We got it all figured out.’ God save us and humble us from such an ungodly mindset.

I have typically found this kind of thinking in many people within the recent emerging church movement. Listen, I am not here to bash the emerging church. For those who do spend the better part of their time doing so, I think it is ridiculous. There are a few more important things to get on with than to heresy hunt, trying to point out all groups that are wrong. Sometimes we need to simply get on with living out the gospel truth rather than focus on everyone who is not, or at least those we think are not.

But what I would challenge the emerging, or emergent, movement with is that they not be so quick to throw so much out of the window. It simply is too prideful and arrogant to do so. Again, some things need to be laid aside, and I leave you to decide which of those really need to be. But we are not called to scratch the whole card and completely make up a new one. We have come from somewhere. Those who have gone before us were involved in the conversation a long time before we were ever thought of.

Of course I believe that God is always doing ‘new things’ (see Isaiah 43:19). And I believe this Scripture not only spoke into Isaiah’s day, nor simply into the initiation of the new covenant in Christ’s day, but it also becomes a reality with our present day. Interestingly enough, the One who is faithfully consistent has continued to do new things along the centuries. But, in the midst of new things, the Faithful One does not ask us to disconnect from the past. He asks us to remember our history, remember the line from which we have come.

We see this in Paul’s plea to the Galatians:

This is what I mean: the law, which came 430 years afterward, does not annul a covenant previously ratified by God, so as to make the promise void. For if the inheritance comes by the law, it no longer comes by promise; but God gave it to Abraham by a promise. (Galatians 3:17-18)

The Law was given, and Paul says it was given so that we would ultimately be pushed to Christ (3:19-29), but God did not annul nor forget that which He previously promised to Abraham – righteousness by faith (Genesis 15:6).

So, the lesson applicable to what I am trying to get across is that, even when God stirs a new thing in our midst, He does not ask us to completely forget those who have gone before us. There are people who have given their lives for Christ and the gospel of the kingdom. Most of us will not even come close to such a path. Therefore, I think it safe to say that those who have given their lives in such a way just might have been graced with a little more wisdom than you and I. Maybe? Maybe not? But it’s worth considering.

And, even in the midst of such new things in our midst, I would remind us that Scripture teaches us elsewhere that ‘there is nothing new under the sun’ (Ecclesiastes 1:9). The Teacher of Ecclesiastes reminds us that things really did not start with us. Again, God can stir new things in us and there will definitely be a sense of newness and freshness in our midst. But do we really think that this is new in the bigger perspective? Isn’t there an eternal One who sees it all at once?

Such truth and such reality reminds me of how Job responded after God appeared to him and began to speak to him: Behold, I am of small account; what shall I answer you? I lay my hand on my mouth (Job 40:4). Or, in modern English: I’ll shut up and crawl back into my hole now.

Therefore, let us be encouraged to keep pursuing our God. He is a dynamic and living God who is always doing new things. In this we find much encouragement and strength. But let us never walk down the arrogant path where we discard everything and everyone who has gone before us. Such is unhealthy. Such in unbiblical. Hey, I even think the cloud of witnesses will help us endure in the race set before us (see Hebrews 12:1).

The Way of the Wild Heart

Most people are aware of the name John Eldredge. Oh yeah, that’s the Wild at Heart guy, right? Who knows how many copies that specific book has sold. I’m sure it’s in the millions. Interestingly enough, he’s actually written quite a few other books. It’s just that Wild at Heart made him known.

I’ve just recently finished reading Eldredge’s book, The Way of the Wild Heart. It’s actually my third time through the book. I first read it while on my honeymoon two and a half years ago (great book to pack for the honeymoon) and have since read through it two other times with two different groups of guys. It’s been good to discuss the book with other guys.

I must admit that I do like John Eldredge’s writings. Some might claim I am an Eldredge-addict. But I think he has some wise and insightful thoughts on our spiritual journey in Christ. The sad thing for me is that he has become somewhat of a Christian celebrity due to the success of Wild at Heart, though he has also had his fair share of critics. I remember back in the late 90’s when his first book was released, The Sacred Romance, with co-author Brent Curtis who was, unfortunately, killed in a climbing accident not too long after the book’s release. But, now, Eldredge is one of the most popular American Christian authors of today.

The reason I mention such adulation as a sad thing is that this seems to be the usual path of American Christianity. Build platforms, make celebrities, and add a little lights, cameras and action in there while you’re at it. I’m not even saying Eldredge had that as his purpose in writing such books. He actually shares about his reluctancy in writing the very first book. But, whereas he was a more grass-roots, unknown author in the late 90’s, he has now turned into one of the most well-known American Christian writers, popping out books, study guides for those books, and other little extras left and right. I sometimes wonder if he, too, has fallen into such a trap.

Still, I really do appreciate Eldredge’s thoughts on the Christian life. He’s no theologian by any means, but he has some very keen and brilliant insights into our life in Christ, and especially for the male journey. He has been greatly influenced by the writings of people like C.S. Lewis, George McDonald (who, himself, was a great influence on Lewis), and other classical spiritual writers. Eldredge has somewhat of a pastoral heart to see people released into the full joy and freedom that is ours in Christ.

Specifically, The Way of the Wild Heart is a follow-up to the best-seller, Wild at Heart. As all good American authors and screenwriters know, if the first does well, you have to put out a second. Thus, the release of The Way of the Wild Heart.

In Wild at Heart, Eldredge laid out three main longings of every male on their journey in life. Each man longs for:

  • A battle to fight
  • An adventure to live
  • A beauty to rescue

This is seen in all stories, all movies, and even through the Scripture. It sure brings an American twist to the call and journey of a man, but, nonetheless, I think it is an overall good representation of the masculine life.

In The Way of the Wild Heart, Eldredge expands on this theme by noting six major phases of a man’s life:

  • Beloved Son
  • Cowboy (or Ranger)
  • Warrior
  • Lover
  • King
  • Sage

More than anything, his point is that God wants to come and father us through each of these stages. No doubt, some of these stages will overlap and, at times, you will be drawn to revisit a specific stage. But, in general, these are the six stages a man passes through in life. I will expound on each stage very briefly.

Beloved Son – When a boy is young, he longs to know he is the beloved son. Not because he has done something to earn such favour, but simply because he is loved and adored by his father. Mom’s love is good and right. But, for the son, they need the father’s love. Hence the devastation in a home with an absent father. Yet, this fathering role of the beloved son could be filled by another man – a spiritual father of sorts. Sometimes, young boys are asked to grow up too quick, as when the father leaves the home through divorce and states, ‘Your the man of the house now.’ This is too much for an eight-year old or even a fifteen year old. A boy needs time to be the beloved son.

Cowboy – This is the time of reaching adolescence and the stage will probably run through to one’s late teens or early twenties. Such a stage calls for adventure and exploring, getting to know life and all of its ways. Again, it is paramount to have a father figure to help the adolescent grow up but, no doubt, the father’s role will have changed slightly. This is a time to let the son out – let him hang out with his friends, go on trips with his friends, maybe do a little study overseas, etc. But this is a time for him to step out of the nest and grow up into greater things.

Warrior – Such a season consists of the young man learning how to battle. Not necessarily through real fights, but through battling for their own life in Christ and the life of others. They will learn strength and they will learn how to deal with failure. This is quite like the days of David on the run from Saul, or that window we get into Christ’s life at His temptation by Satan. But, in all, they are being formed to be a faithful and courageous warrior.

Lover – A time will come when a woman has caught the eye of the man – her beauty, her character, her smile, her laugh, etc. God has created man to find that great mutual helper that will become his wife. Sometimes the boy becomes heartbroken at the loss of such a love, and healing will be needed. But God has such a gift for men. During this season, a man will learn how to be a great lover to his beloved in learning deep intimacy of the heart. And, even more, this is a time when we can be awakened to the Great Lover and His pursuit of us, which becomes the reality even for those of us unmarried.

King – Entering the later stages of life, one becomes a king over his ‘kingdom’. It might be small, as in a very small business or small group, or it might be larger, as in leading a church of a few hundred or being the CEO of a major corporation. In all, we are called to rule and we are called to rule well. Yet, as with all stages, this one will present grave difficulties which we are called to rule over. But the Great King commissions us to rule and, thus, we can do so in His strength.

Sage – This is the last and final stage of one’s life. This is the time that we step aside and allow other kings to take their place. Yet, Eldredge challenges us that, whereas many are looking to settle down and pick up golf in the latter years of one’s life, this is a time to not go into vacation mode. Rather, we are to look to impart wisdom and life to other men, especially other kings. Sages are not only graced with great wisdom, but also with great compassion.

Thus, we have the six stages of life. Again, while these are general markers in a life of transitioning from one stage to the next, there will be overlap in the transition and there will be times we re-visit earlier stages. What king doesn’t also need to know he is still the beloved son of the Father?

And Eldredge also supplies a chapter for every stage in which he looks at how we can raise our own sons in these stages. Some of us do not have biological sons. But we’ve all been given young men in our lives to mentor, disciple and care for. As Paul said to Timothy:

And what you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses entrust to faithful persons who will be able to teach others also. (2 Timothy 2:2)

I know that Eldredge comes across as an outdoorsy type of guy. I would suspect such, for that is who he is. He lives in Colorado and he loves camping, backpacking, hiking, mountain climbing, white-water rafting, canoeing, etc. And while he does admit that one doesn’t have to be a complete outdoors type of guy, he does believe there is something about men and the outdoors. This is all found in the reality that Adam was created outside the Garden (Genesis 2:7-8). To this, I would agree. But I would also guard a little more against making men feel less-than-manly if they are not that outdoorsy type. That can come across in both books.

Still, I would recommend that men, especially American Christian men, read this book (I have sometimes found it that non-American men do not really understand Eldredge’s heart). I believe God has given John Eldredge great insight into the masculine journey and, therefore, I think we can benefit from his words in the first book, Wild at Heart, and in this second book, The Way of the Wild Heart. Thus ends my review of this book. If you want to read more about Eldredge, his ministry (Ransomed Heart) and his other books, visit his website – www.ransomedheart.com.